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Altars and Everyday Rituals
The small stone Buddha was meant for the garden, but it was cold and raining the day that I brought it home. Thinking I’d move it outside...

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Jul 17, 20213 min read
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Caution: Writer Stretching
I put aside a work in progress, a manuscript that needs to settle before I can pick it up again. Such an action stirs in me other...

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Jul 7, 20212 min read
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Democracy On The Ropes
Once a week, give or take a day, I write a blog post. I try to keep my posts upbeat and sincere. But here’s a deeper truth: these days...

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Jun 7, 20213 min read
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What A Difference A Year Can Make!
Today a couple of memories popped up on my Facebook page and I was surprised by what a touchstone they were. At this time in 2019, I had...

stephanieraffelock
Jun 2, 20212 min read
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Ode To An Aging Neck
I would love to tell you that I’m so evolved that I never lament lost youth. But, I’m only human, and today this human is thinking way...

stephanieraffelock
Apr 23, 20213 min read
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The How of Self-Love and Acceptance
My message, work, and sense of purpose is about women. I advocate for women to live lives of opportunity and equality on a level playing...

stephanieraffelock
Apr 8, 20213 min read
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Way Past Normal
Have you noticed that there’s a lot of talk about things returning to normal? What do we think normal is now? A major world event has...

stephanieraffelock
Mar 26, 20213 min read
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A New Way Forward
The atoms of darkness break apart as light breathes itself into the day. I’m on the edge of myself, picking politics from my teeth,...

stephanieraffelock
Mar 12, 20212 min read
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Politics, Pandemics and Freedom
I’m on a rant this morning. I just spent several hours on line, playing the lottery. Praying to hit the right button at the right time...

stephanieraffelock
Mar 4, 20213 min read
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Full Stop
This is my sixth day of quarantine and still no results from the COVID test. I remain fairly certain that what I have is a challenging...

stephanieraffelock
Jan 21, 20212 min read
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LOVE & NOURISHMENT
I’ve been hungry for a lot of things in my life that had nothing to do with food and everything to do with the way I fed myself. It’s...

stephanieraffelock
Nov 15, 20205 min read
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THE SUMMER OF BELONGING:
Strippers, Poets and Omar's Restaurant My writing journey has been both long and short. By long, I mean I wrote here and there while...

stephanieraffelock
Jul 9, 20206 min read
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THE TALE OF HOW THE GOVERNOR CAME TO BE
In the mid-1960’s in South Denver, a short distance from the apartment where my mother and I lived, was a hotel on Colorado Boulevard. I...

stephanieraffelock
Jun 25, 20204 min read
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WE PUT OUR DOG DOWN TODAY
Jeter 2008 – 2020 We put our dog Jeter down today. A cancer had snuck into his life and Dean and I vowed that we wouldn’t let him...

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Jun 1, 20202 min read
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SPRING HOPES ETERNAL
My neighbors’ friendliness is a soothing welcome. It staves off the loneliness of living in a world that is too fast and too...

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May 3, 20204 min read
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Suitable for Re-framing
My mom: Cleopha Marie Tylenda There aren’t a lot of photos of my mother as a little girl. Personal photography was not a common thing...

stephanieraffelock
Oct 10, 20193 min read
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Welcome to Podcasting
A little coffee to go with Coffee Table Wisdom Launching my podcast, Coffee Table Wisdom, reminds me of when I first launched a blog. ...

stephanieraffelock
Oct 2, 20192 min read
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Living Out This Idea of Love
It seems to me that the universe is bound together by dancing molecules of love. I’ve had a couple of rough weeks. Free floating...

stephanieraffelock
Sep 5, 20194 min read
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The Body Beautiful
While older women counsel young women to love their bodies, we often fail to have that conversation with ourselves. As a young woman I...

stephanieraffelock
Jun 6, 20194 min read
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Does Aging Really Suck?
I was talking to a woman the other day who told me that she and all of her friends think that getting older sucks. Her mind set was the...

stephanieraffelock
Apr 17, 20194 min read
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