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THE TALE OF HOW THE GOVERNOR CAME TO BE
In the mid-1960’s in South Denver, a short distance from the apartment where my mother and I lived, was a hotel on Colorado Boulevard. I...
stephanieraffelock
Jun 25, 20204 min read
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WHAT IT MEANS TO AGE GRACEFULLY ...
When I was a young woman, I was caught by the expression, “You are what you eat.” I still believe that, and not just in terms of the...
stephanieraffelock
Apr 17, 20202 min read
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What It Means to Age Gracefully…
To age gracefully is to age with gratitude. I embrace, believe and experience this truth every day. Walking life in gratitude is not...
stephanieraffelock
Mar 24, 20203 min read
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What It Means to Age Gracefully…
One definition of the phrase aging gracefully means that we look younger than our years. But that’s a sorry and shallow definition, and...
stephanieraffelock
Mar 4, 20202 min read
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In the Age of Me, Me, Me, Me . . .
Writing is one thing. Marketing yourself to the world is another. On the one hand I don’t think that the desire for readers is an...
stephanieraffelock
Jan 11, 20202 min read
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Suitable for Re-framing
My mom: Cleopha Marie Tylenda There aren’t a lot of photos of my mother as a little girl. Personal photography was not a common thing...
stephanieraffelock
Oct 10, 20193 min read
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Welcome to Podcasting
A little coffee to go with Coffee Table Wisdom Launching my podcast, Coffee Table Wisdom, reminds me of when I first launched a blog. ...
stephanieraffelock
Oct 2, 20192 min read
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Living Out This Idea of Love
It seems to me that the universe is bound together by dancing molecules of love. I’ve had a couple of rough weeks. Free floating...
stephanieraffelock
Sep 5, 20194 min read
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Does Aging Really Suck?
I was talking to a woman the other day who told me that she and all of her friends think that getting older sucks. Her mind set was the...
stephanieraffelock
Apr 17, 20194 min read
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2019!
Happy 2019! New Year’s Day: Even if you don’t make resolutions, which I don’t, there’s a feeling of freshness and excitement about...
stephanieraffelock
Jan 1, 20193 min read
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A Birthday Selfie – Reflections on 66!
My friends are precious to me, some known for 40 and 50 years. They’re the source of birthday cards and calls, emails and birthday...
stephanieraffelock
Apr 1, 20182 min read
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A Morning From A Child’s Page
The morning is black and the days are slow to gather light. Winter hovers over us with piercing silence and the language of snow. A...
stephanieraffelock
Jan 25, 20182 min read
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The Year of Convictions
I like the “new” in front of New Year. Other than that, there’s not really anything that I celebrate. New Year’s eve is my least favorite...
stephanieraffelock
Jan 14, 20183 min read
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Joy To The Choir
This is an older post, but one that I had a lot of fun remembering and writing. I’m sharing it here again in the spirit of the season....
stephanieraffelock
Dec 19, 20175 min read
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The Transformative Force of Grief
Is it uniquely American to pick and choose emotional states, as if from a menu? Be happy. Don’t be angry. Choose joy, not sorrow. Aim for...
stephanieraffelock
Nov 27, 20173 min read
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The Story Gatherer and the Fairy Chairs
For a few weeks now I’ve been grappling with recent rejections. One day I’m strong and tough skinned and two days later, the...
stephanieraffelock
Aug 13, 20173 min read
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8 Steps to Dynamic Living After 60 (Or Really Anytime)
Is it the need to heal some childhood wound of wanting to get it right? Or is there a deeper reason, like wanting to get the most from...
stephanieraffelock
Jul 9, 20173 min read
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Insecurity, Not Good Enough and Other Sucky Things Writers Do to Themselves
On the one hand, you have to be a little bit crazy to want to lock yourself into a room several hours each day to create worlds with the...
stephanieraffelock
Jun 5, 20172 min read
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My Summer To-Do List
This morning I made myself a to-do list, a reminder list of the simple things that make me a kinder, happier person. I hope that you find...
stephanieraffelock
May 20, 20171 min read
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Sunrise Ceremony
What marks the beginning of the spring and summer months for you? Please share with me in the comments. #spirituality #joy #introspection...
stephanieraffelock
May 3, 20171 min read
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