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A Life In Letters
A few days ago an old friend, Kitty, emailed me that she was cleaning out a file cabinet and had found several of my letters. She scanned...

stephanieraffelock
Apr 16, 20173 min read
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Inspire or Perspire, Thoughts From An Old Determined Rookie
My writing journey is pretty inspirational, at least to me. For the past four years, I have been doing what musicians call...

stephanieraffelock
Apr 2, 20173 min read
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Why Would You Even Want to Write a Book?
So why write a book at all? I’ve asked myself this question in the past year as I’ve slogged through the slow revision and polish process...

stephanieraffelock
Feb 18, 20173 min read
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What’s Your Word for 2017?
Even though one day is pretty much the same as another, and an arbitrary line between December 31st and January 1st doesn’t really mean...

stephanieraffelock
Jan 9, 20172 min read
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Holiday Wishes
I am hunkered down with tea and  a laptop, moving forward on a manuscript that has had its hands around my throat for the past year and...

stephanieraffelock
Dec 24, 20161 min read
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Freedom
When the Faith and Culture Writers Conference put out a call for original essays to read to the inmates involved in The 7th Step...

stephanieraffelock
Sep 2, 20164 min read
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Gratitude
You simply will not be the same person two months from now after consciously giving thanks each day for the abundance that exists in your...

stephanieraffelock
Aug 28, 20162 min read
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All In A Day’s Hike
A pair of well-worn hiking boots sit on a rock somewhere on a trail on a sunny summer’s day. When I went down, I went down hard, the left...

stephanieraffelock
Jul 24, 20162 min read
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Our Breaking Heart
My heart won’t stop aching for the cops shot to death while they were trying to protect the protesters. I think about their families and...

stephanieraffelock
Jul 10, 20163 min read
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Nine Things I Want My Nieces and Great Nieces To Know
There are certain things that I want to tell my nieces and my grand nieces before I get too old. Maybe they already know. They are all a...

stephanieraffelock
Jun 30, 20163 min read
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Technology and the Death of Introspection
For a while I still read at night. Schooled on the principle that one’s writing is a direct reflection of the quality of one’s reading, I...

stephanieraffelock
Feb 24, 20164 min read
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What The Morning Brings
I kept the teapot and the sugar and creamer, though I lost the lid to the pot during a move. I displayed them on a shelf. The rest of the...

stephanieraffelock
Feb 13, 20162 min read
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Investing In Your Writing
By the time you are working in the long-form format of the novel or the memoir, craft becomes the big thing. Story. Craft is what makes...

stephanieraffelock
Feb 11, 20162 min read
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Dancing With Your Dreams
Second Chapters–I know them well. The invention and reinvention of your self, each time trying to get life a little more right than the...

stephanieraffelock
Jan 1, 20162 min read
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Give The Best In You To Others
I was a writing student at Naropa University, a Buddhist inspired school, deeply rooted in the traditions of meditation, creative...

stephanieraffelock
Dec 24, 20153 min read
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The Very Last Day of Summer
And it did. The rains came on the heels of a hot, smoky, too dry summer that had over stayed her welcome. And with the rains came the...

stephanieraffelock
Oct 18, 20152 min read
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The Last Belgium Blog
My retreat partner Susan and I in Luven, with a statue of a Beguine. It is the work of women to balance the world, to know their strength...

stephanieraffelock
Sep 29, 20152 min read
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Blogging on the Way to the Plane
With the advent of each autumn since, I have planned a retreat. Just before I moved from Colorado to Oregon, I found myself sitting in...

stephanieraffelock
Sep 17, 20153 min read
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And Then I Blogged Through Belgium
Thus far, my sixties have been the most exciting and fun part of my life. I never believed I would say that a few years ago. Sixty is,...

stephanieraffelock
Sep 9, 20154 min read
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Change and the Hope of Possibility
In recent years, I have grown cynical. Never in my lifetime have I seen a President of the United States treated with such disrespect, a...

stephanieraffelock
Jun 27, 20153 min read
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