stephanieraffelockJan 9, 20172 minWhat’s Your Word for 2017?Even though one day is pretty much the same as another, and an arbitrary line between December 31st and January 1st doesn’t really mean...
stephanieraffelockDec 31, 20162 minThe Grace and Gift of AustinThree times a week, she walked the hills around our little town with her friend, Denise, huddled together, two ancient women undaunted by...
stephanieraffelockDec 24, 20161 minHoliday WishesI am hunkered down with tea and a laptop, moving forward on a manuscript that has had its hands around my throat for the past year and...
stephanieraffelockDec 3, 20163 minDonald Trump, Blue Beard and the FeminineI recently talked with a friend who is a Jungian analyst and has spent many years collecting fairy tales and myths. “What is the story...
stephanieraffelockOct 1, 20163 minThe Why of What We WriteRecently I was given a list of Pixar’s 22 Rules of Storytelling. It’s a great list for anyone who writes fiction. Number #14 on the list...
stephanieraffelockSep 2, 20164 minFreedomWhen the Faith and Culture Writers Conference put out a call for original essays to read to the inmates involved in The 7th Step...
stephanieraffelockAug 28, 20162 minGratitudeYou simply will not be the same person two months from now after consciously giving thanks each day for the abundance that exists in your...
stephanieraffelockJul 24, 20162 minAll In A Day’s HikeA pair of well-worn hiking boots sit on a rock somewhere on a trail on a sunny summer’s day. When I went down, I went down hard, the left...
stephanieraffelockJul 10, 20163 minOur Breaking HeartMy heart won’t stop aching for the cops shot to death while they were trying to protect the protesters. I think about their families and...
stephanieraffelockJun 30, 20163 minNine Things I Want My Nieces and Great Nieces To KnowThere are certain things that I want to tell my nieces and my grand nieces before I get too old. Maybe they already know. They are all a...
stephanieraffelockJun 7, 20165 minA 6-Step Roadmap With Title Change“When you get to the highest point on the roller coaster you can either scream in fear or squeal with delight.” The truth about...
stephanieraffelockMay 2, 20164 minProcess, Preparation and ProseIf you are someone who writes by the seat of their pants, this essay is not for you. Stephen King, the grand Pooh-Bah of pantsing is...
stephanieraffelockFeb 24, 20164 minTechnology and the Death of IntrospectionFor a while I still read at night. Schooled on the principle that one’s writing is a direct reflection of the quality of one’s reading, I...
stephanieraffelockFeb 13, 20162 minWhat The Morning BringsI kept the teapot and the sugar and creamer, though I lost the lid to the pot during a move. I displayed them on a shelf. The rest of the...
stephanieraffelockFeb 11, 20162 minInvesting In Your WritingBy the time you are working in the long-form format of the novel or the memoir, craft becomes the big thing. Story. Craft is what makes...
stephanieraffelockFeb 7, 20162 minAll That Political Stuff That Puts You To Sleep and What You Need To Do About It!Are you more interested in cute kitty videos on Facebook than you are in understanding the policies of our elected officials? Is social...
stephanieraffelockJan 23, 20162 minHave A Grateful DayI find myself looking for moments in which I can take a deep breath and fill my heart with gratitude. And let me tell you they are...
stephanieraffelockJan 1, 20162 minDancing With Your DreamsSecond Chapters–I know them well. The invention and reinvention of your self, each time trying to get life a little more right than the...
stephanieraffelockDec 30, 20153 minFriended, Fanned and Porned (How To Make Facebook and Other Social Media Un-Fun)And the problem didn’t start when I got porned on Facebook. A sexually violent picture appeared on my timeline. I was able to report it...
stephanieraffelockDec 24, 20153 minGive The Best In You To OthersI was a writing student at Naropa University, a Buddhist inspired school, deeply rooted in the traditions of meditation, creative...